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Deciding to get control of your anger — rather than letting it control you — means taking a good hard look at the ways you've been reacting when you get mad. Do you tend to yell and scream or say hurtful, mean, disrespectful things? Do you throw things, kick or punch walls, break stuff?

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If you want to make a big change in how you're handling your anger, think about what you'll gain from that change. More self-respect?

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Then you weigh your choices and decide what you'll do. Each step involves asking yourself a couple of questions, then answering them based on your particular situation. Let's take this example: There's a party you're planning to go to, but your mom just told you to clean your room or stay home. The red-hot anger starts building.

Start by noticing what you're angry about and why. Put into words what's making you upset so you can act rather than react. Ask yourself: What's got me angry?

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What am I feeling and why? You can do this either in your mind or out loud, but it needs to be clear and specific. For example: "I'm really angry at Mom because she won't let me go to the party until I clean Lady escorts Memphis Tennessee room. It's not fair! Notice that this is not the same as saying, "Mom's so unfair to me. This is where you stop for a minute to give yourself time to manage your anger.

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This is where you take action by choosing one of the three things you could do. Look at the list and pick the one that is likely to be most effective. Ask yourself: What's my best choice? By the time you've thought it through, you're probably past yelling at your mom, which is a knee-jerk response. Bbw escort Murrieta may have also decided that sneaking out is too risky.

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If not, why not? Am I satisfied with the choice I made?

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Taking some time to reflect on how things worked out after it's all over is a very important step. It helps you learn about yourself and it allows you to test which problem-solving approaches work best in different situations. Give yourself a pat on the back if the solution you chose worked out well. If it didn't, go back through the five steps and see if you can figure out why. These five steps are pretty simple when you're calm, Prostitution in Wayne MI san are much tougher to work through when you're angry or sad kind of like Shreveport LA lyne escorts basketball practice when making baskets is much easier than in a real game when the pressure is on!

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